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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description></description><title>Live it up</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @congrui)</generator><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>yolympics:

changing from jeans to pajama pants

</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://yolympics.tumblr.com/post/45822452539/changing-from-jeans-to-pajama-pants"&gt;yolympics&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;changing from jeans to pajama pants&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/59903f2298c8e42c10f99819a7db9d2c/tumblr_inline_mjy6g4FrPN1qz4rgp.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/50886893591</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/50886893591</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 01:09:01 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>astrokidmusic:

astrokidmusic:

I should just quit school and become a brostitute
you pay me to just...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://astrokidmusic.tumblr.com/post/33394090712"&gt;astrokidmusic&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://astrokidmusic.tumblr.com/post/33284115122"&gt;astrokidmusic&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I should just quit school and become a brostitute&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;you pay me to just hang out and chill&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;does anybody want to join me&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;we can start a&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;bro&lt;/em&gt;thel&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;barney stinson? Is that you bro&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/49746100197</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/49746100197</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 May 2013 23:04:59 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>drunktrophywife:

if you’re going to insult me please give me 24 hours notice so i can come up with...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://drunktrophywife.tumblr.com/post/49298332190/if-youre-going-to-insult-me-please-give-me-24"&gt;drunktrophywife&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you’re going to insult me please give me 24 hours notice so i can come up with a comeback&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/49709233815</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/49709233815</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 May 2013 15:27:19 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>fierrrrrrce:

samsclub21:


flightmediclife:

This beautiful...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a3b7e62460b367ef186185ac0f13c673/tumblr_mm14pcYLbf1s60a9vo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://fierrrrrrce.tumblr.com/post/49392838883/samsclub21-flightmediclife-this-beautiful" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;fierrrrrrce&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://samsclub21.tumblr.com/post/49314314488/flightmediclife-this-beautiful-little-girl-had"&gt;samsclub21&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://flightmediclife.tumblr.com/post/49191636471/this-beautiful-little-girl-had-open-heart-surgery"&gt;flightmediclife&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This beautiful little girl had open heart surgery less than 24 hours before this photo was taken. When asked why she was up so quickly, she replied her Hello Kitty slippers make everything better. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Reblog to show how strong she is!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Note: This photo was published with permission from her mother. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;AW I just want to hold her&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;



&lt;p&gt;awwww babyyyy :( shes so beautiful&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/49416343790</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/49416343790</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 00:09:45 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/cd5eb0ca05624eac55d872e8db30ac76/tumblr_mlz87urm8D1qzjggvo1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/49118061974</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/49118061974</guid><pubDate>Sun, 28 Apr 2013 16:09:47 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>graystripe:

graystripe:

my brother just tried to twerk but he farted by accident and now hes...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://graystripe.tumblr.com/post/39097291902/graystripe-my-brother-just-tried-to-twerk-but"&gt;graystripe&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://graystripe.tumblr.com/post/39096783077/my-brother-just-tried-to-twerk-but-he-farted-by"&gt;graystripe&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;my brother just tried to twerk but he farted by accident and now hes crying &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;he said hes “disgraced the whole family”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;trey hongz?&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/48598717783</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/48598717783</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 Apr 2013 03:02:17 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>queeniman:

thearcanetheory:

modernanglophilia:

Tumblr, please...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/107fef12cf45a837a28d4beb482d9aa5/tumblr_mli6ihGcEC1rgu4ivo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ab07303d9511c4d65968190b5f33b26b/tumblr_mli6ihGcEC1rgu4ivo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://queeniman.tumblr.com/post/48362487392/thearcanetheory-modernanglophilia-tumblr"&gt;queeniman&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thearcanetheory.tumblr.com/post/48359047421/modernanglophilia-tumblr-please-spread-this"&gt;thearcanetheory&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://modernanglophilia.tumblr.com/post/48352897382"&gt;modernanglophilia&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Tumblr, please spread this like WILDFIRE. This teenager has been wrongly suspected of being one of the Boston bombers. He’s scared for his family. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Please pass it on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Source: &lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2311248/Sala-Barhoum-track-star-teenager-denies-involvement-Boston-Marathon-bombing-picture-widely-circulated.html"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2311248/Sala-Barhoum-track-star-teenager-denies-involvement-Boston-Marathon-bombing-picture-widely-circulated.html"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2311248/Sala-Barhoum-track-star-teenager-denies-involvement-Boston-Marathon-bombing-picture-widely-circulated.html"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2311248/Sala-Barhoum-track-star-teenager-denies-involvement-Boston-Marathon-bombing-picture-widely-circulated.html"&gt;http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2311248/Sala-Barhoum-track-star-teenager-denies-involvement-Boston-Marathon-bombing-picture-widely-circulated.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;racism kills&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;stop it&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This really brings tears to my eyes wallahi&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/48427502146</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/48427502146</guid><pubDate>Sat, 20 Apr 2013 06:00:37 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>little-uno:

thatstoomainstream:

It’s weird how in animals seeing ribs/collar&amp;amp;hip bones is...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://little-uno.tumblr.com/post/46811549366/thatstoomainstream-its-weird-how-in-animals"&gt;little-uno&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thatstoomainstream.tumblr.com/post/46777840097/its-weird-how-in-animals-seeing-ribs-collar-hip"&gt;thatstoomainstream&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;It’s weird how in animals seeing ribs/collar&amp;amp;hip bones is considered sick or even abusive, but in people that’s considered beautiful.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This may have just changed my life.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/48341432876</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/48341432876</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Apr 2013 02:14:34 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>
Emma Watson at the 2013 MTV Movie Awards
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/24dea1fb093947d20fcdac0cfc8f5977/tumblr_ml9vs2Irlz1qdoyv4o1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Emma Watson at the 2013 MTV Movie Awards&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/48008302436</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/48008302436</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Apr 2013 21:59:58 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>harmlessbrownman:

thepunjabihermit:

The life of an Indian kid...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/856080f8347d1607fd8da87d07b1cf86/tumblr_ml2ydq0h6O1qdlh1io1_400.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://harmlessbrownman.tumblr.com/post/47753188706/thepunjabihermit-the-life-of-an-indian-kid-in-a" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;harmlessbrownman&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thepunjabihermit.tumblr.com/post/47737662001/the-life-of-an-indian-kid-in-a-nutshell"&gt;thepunjabihermit&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The life of an Indian kid in a nutshell. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;thapad game strong.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47764273881</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47764273881</guid><pubDate>Fri, 12 Apr 2013 01:46:04 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>


My Wife’s Fight With Breast Cancerone of the saddest and most...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/8414072914b84e4cfe7133a96f1a8a49/tumblr_mkhdj5Vr4w1r55djgo3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e64c6acdf99ff78810e76b38d897e737/tumblr_mkhdj5Vr4w1r55djgo4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/623f1fc71d684708db2134e934e818de/tumblr_mkhdj5Vr4w1r55djgo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2f5ddf1efc04f60a08387afafbc19b26/tumblr_mkhdj5Vr4w1r55djgo7_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/7d81d60e445d6e3abe80582a78775bb7/tumblr_mkhdj5Vr4w1r55djgo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/6149cf8ddd55718f36f7ea838bd49083/tumblr_mkhdj5Vr4w1r55djgo8_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e0367accc0a0b2bb8087167665662618/tumblr_mkhdj5Vr4w1r55djgo5_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/77ec6b34a3fef2ae364256de68ec2fcf/tumblr_mkhdj5Vr4w1r55djgo6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;a href="http://mywifesfightwithbreastcancer.com/"&gt;&lt;br/&gt;My Wife’s Fight With Breast Cancer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;one of the saddest and most beautiful photo essays I’ve ever seen&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47292186813</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47292186813</guid><pubDate>Sat, 06 Apr 2013 14:13:58 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>oakbaby:

im getting extremely emotional about this
</title><description>&lt;iframe src="//www.tumblr.com/video/congrui/47252242152/400" id="tumblr_video_iframe_47252242152" class="tumblr_video_iframe" width="400" height="225" style="display:block;background-color:transparent;overflow:hidden;" allowTransparency="true" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://oakbaby.tumblr.com/post/44351244699/im-getting-extremely-emotional-about-this"&gt;oakbaby&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;im getting extremely emotional about this&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47252242152</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47252242152</guid><pubDate>Sat, 06 Apr 2013 00:39:23 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>hairandglasses:

granitestatedude-core:

“No matter what...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/07a17ef432af61093f8423f4e4ad98b7/tumblr_mkjntzJfqr1qfpfs5o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://hairandglasses.tumblr.com/post/46821308448/granitestatedude-core-no-matter-what-direction"&gt;hairandglasses&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://granitestatedude-core.tumblr.com/post/46815373480/no-matter-what-direction-you-view-this-image-from"&gt;granitestatedude-core&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“No matter what direction you view this image from the gun will be pointing at you.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;fucking jesse pinkman breaking science&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47141082582</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47141082582</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Apr 2013 18:42:55 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f72655367205b2c3b1c6f5296c23986f/tumblr_mkel7fGrIk1s124vdo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47121761518</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47121761518</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Apr 2013 14:27:26 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>halarealmadridcr7:

littlewingzamora12:
kaaaylanicole:
b0b-m4rley...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lw4id8xZw51qey7voo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lw4id8xZw51qey7voo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://halarealmadridcr7.tumblr.com/post/47018501345/littlewingzamora12-kaaaylanicole-b0b-m4rley"&gt;halarealmadridcr7&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://littlewingzamora12.tumblr.com/post/47003145361/kaaaylanicole-b0b-m4rley"&gt;littlewingzamora12&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://kaaaylanicole.tumblr.com/post/24160137155/b0b-m4rley-lets-blame-society"&gt;kaaaylanicole&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://b0b-m4rley.tumblr.com/post/23970826285/lets-blame-society-dontwannamissathingxo"&gt;b0b-m4rley&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lets-blame-society.tumblr.com/post/23924060092/dontwannamissathingxo-theselenalight-i-swear"&gt;lets-blame-society&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://dontwannamissathingxo.tumblr.com/post/14483192278"&gt;dontwannamissathingxo&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://theselenalight.tumblr.com/post/14457676709/i-swear-to-god-if-you-dont-reblog-this-you-re"&gt;theselenalight&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I swear to god, if you don’t reblog this, you´re heartless&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; i know what it feels like to be in iraq and miss the birth of your own daughter.&lt;3&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Heartbreaking. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i’m literally dying inside :’(&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;this is amazing&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I will never not reblog this precious and amazing moment&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47085568764</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47085568764</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Apr 2013 00:34:51 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>got da same letter!!</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mcefvhoOaa1qe0wclo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;got da same letter!!&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47008587396</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/47008587396</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 Apr 2013 03:24:23 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luij97b7wO1qa2i4xo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/46697009496</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/46697009496</guid><pubDate>Sat, 30 Mar 2013 16:25:27 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>did-you-kno:

Source</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/6466ccd47f06e55c23be1426c51e94f6/tumblr_mkgexbQEyA1qkvbwso1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://didyouknowblog.com/post/46641281749/source" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;did-you-kno&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.guidedogsofamerica.org/1/mission/"&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/46645867240</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/46645867240</guid><pubDate>Sat, 30 Mar 2013 00:23:27 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>thatfunnyblog:

Funny Stuff you like?</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lprphaYLVT1qaqo64o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://thatfunnystuff.com/post/45523752708/funny-stuff-you-like" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;thatfunnyblog&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thatfunnystuff.com/"&gt;Funny Stuff you like?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/46234099612</link><guid>http://congrui.tumblr.com/post/46234099612</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 02:04:41 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>cheddarbunny:

egwmusic:

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&lt;h1&gt;Damage&lt;/h1&gt;
&lt;div&gt;&lt;img alt="image" src="http://assets.tumblr.com/images/check.png"/&gt;&lt;h3&gt;This is not my usual post. But it’s something I had to share. As you read this, imagine how your reaction would differ if this story were being told by a woman, talking about how her husband treated her.&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I have been separated from my wife for over a year, though we continue to share a house. We live on separate floors. We share the house because we need to parent our son together, and because we can’t afford to maintain two households.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I’d like to tell you a story, illustrating one reason why I am divorcing her. This is an example of the treatment I have received over the past fourteen years.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This evening, while she was drinking her wine, my estranged wife took exception to the fact that I wanted to talk about how tense she’s been. She said she didn’t want to talk about it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I left the room (so as to comply with her request).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I went upstairs to use our tiny guest bathroom. She began to yell and throw things around the kitchen, then eventually charged up the stairs and into the bathroom, just as I was finishing and getting ready to leave. She confronted me there, holding her half-full wine glass in her hand. Her voice got louder, her gestures wilder.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She complained that I had upset her by wanting to talk when she had told me she didn’t want to talk. As I began to feel uncomfortable, I said, “You’re saying it’s my fault you can’t express your emotions responsibly like an adult?”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She said, “Yes!! It’s because you want to go off and take a vacation with your girlfriend!” Then she threw the contents of her glass in my face and smashed it against my bare chest.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The results are pictured here.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I stood there, with shattered glass at my feet, glass shards sticking in my skin, bleeding, for five minutes or so. I asked her to move so that I could leave. She waved the broken stem of the glass in the air and said, “Leave!! Who’s stopping you?”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I told her she was standing between me and the door. I felt threatened.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She laughed and said, “You’re 6 foot 3 and 250 pounds! You can’t feel threatened by me!”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I said, “You just broke a glass on my chest and cut me. You’re standing there with the stem in your hands. Yes. I feel threatened.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She said, “No, you don’t.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I asked her to move out of the way and let me pass. I didn’t want her to think I was pushing her or threatening her.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She held her ground, waved the broken stem and shouted, “Go on! Leave! I’m not stopping you!”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;After I asked her repeatedly, she finally moved a bit and I left, carefully stepping over the broken glass.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I have posted this here as evidence, and to help those who may think that size and gender make a difference when abuse is concerned. People who, like my estranged, think some have permission to feel threatened and some don’t.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Abusers come in all sizes and genders.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;She and I went to a half dozen therapists over the years. At each initial session, every therapist took a look at me, then at her (5’4” 150 lbs.). Then he or she would gravely ask my wife, “Do you feel safe?”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;None ever thought to ask me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks for listening.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Because this needs to be shared. Because abuse is wrong no matter what. Because this saddens my heart.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;honestly, fuck tumblr. if this was a woman this would be the only thing on my dash.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;with that being said, fuck people who think that women are the only ones that can be abused in a relationship. and fuck crazy women, as well.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;eeeeeeeeeee D:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Why does this have so few notes? If the man in this picture were actually a woman, this would have so many notes it’d be ridiculous. Everyone needs to see this. Everyone needs to see that abusers can be any shape or size, as if you need to see it to believe it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And major kudos to this man for not using his size and weight when he very well could have. Kudos to you for being a decent human being, sir.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;sickens me how few notes this has. Woman aren’t always these fragile lil creatures and if this post was by a woman, tumblr would be all over it.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This is bullshit. All these women complain about wanting equality, but most of them are sexist themselves. And then when things happen to men, &lt;em&gt;“oh, it’s different because it’s a guy”&lt;/em&gt; no. Fuck that. No one deserves to be treated this way.&lt;/p&gt;
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